Friday, May 3, 2013

Friday Five

Crazy day at the office but am trying to wind things up.  Thought I would take a quick break to play Friday Five!

1.  Favorite article of clothing right now-
2.  Favorite designer-
3. Favorite healthy snack-
4.  Makes you happy-
5.  Website you check most-


Answers:

1.  My new skinny boyfriend jeans from Ann Taylor Loft.

2. Trina Turk

3. Smashed avocado on toast with salt, pepper and lime juice

4.  Pizza and wine with the hubby tonight...and the thought of our New Orleans trip next weekend!

5. Dallas Observer food blog (City of Ate)

Hope everyone has a great Cinco de Mayo this weekend!!!  Have a margarita!

I just really love the internet right now.
Not meant to be offensive - I just thought it was funny

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Lean In

I just started reading Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg today.  So far, it is a very interesting read.  I find myself nodding my head in agreement at much of what she has to say about women and our role in the workforce and the issues we face.


At the very least, I think it's a good conversation starter.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Travel Time - Key West, Florida

Linking up for Travel Tuesday with Helene again.  Since she posted about her honeymoon trip, I thought I would do the same.  Steve and I were married almost 11 years ago (anniversary is May 11) and we spent one week in Key West, Florida for our honeymoon.  We really wanted to visit the Caribbean but we were pretty wiped out by the wedding financially so we opted for as close as we could get.  We flew into Miami the next morning after our wedding and rented a car and drove down Highway One to Key West.  The drive takes about 3 to 3.5 hours depending on how many times you stop on the other keys.  You definitely have to watch the speed limit as the Florida Keys are speed trap central.  The limit will suddenly drop from 60 mph to 30 mph and there will be 3 to 4 cop cars hiding in the trees waiting to pounce!  You can also take a small plane (American Eagle, Delta, etc...) from Miami and that flight is about 25 minutes.

(In the interest of full disclosure, none of these pics are mine -- 11 years ago I was still using an old film camera and I have never bothered having my old photos scanned in or digitized so these are from Google images.  I tried to find photos that reflect best what I recall.)

Map of the Florida Keys
Highway One - a beautiful drive!  Turn on the Jimmy Buffett and cruise.
We stayed at the Hyatt Regency Key West.  It was a nice hotel but not as nice as their website photos appeared.  Overall we liked the location of the hotel as it was within walking distance to Duval Street and Mallory Square but it was pretty generic and waaaaaay over-priced.  We went back to Key West a few years later and stayed at a B&B called The Curry Mansion Inn and we preferred it to the Hyatt and it was about half the price.

Hyatt Key West - not as nice as their website's photos, IMO
Curry Mansion Inn - our preferred hotel
Key West is a really fun, lively place.  It has lots of bars, a laid-back vibe and it's definitely a party town.  The main things to do are:

1.  The Duval Crawl.  Basically, you wander down Duval Street and go in and out of bars and t-shirt shops.  The famous Sloppy Joe's bar is located on Duval Street.  We stopped in there but found it to be pretty cheesy and packed to the gills with cruise shippers.  Our favorite bar was Captain Tony's.  Captain Tony is THE Captain Tony from the Jimmy Buffett song, Last Mango in Paris.  We actually got to meet him.  He must have been 85+ years old but he showed up in the evening with a jar labeled "Captain Tony's Vegas Fund" for donations and he sat around drinking beer and flirting with every lady that walked in to the bar.  Unfortunately, Tony Tarantino died a few years ago but his bar remains.  Strong drinks!!!

Captain Tony's Bar
2.  The Hemingway House.  Even if you're not a Hemingway fan, the house is worth the tour.  It has beautiful gardens, an interesting history and is a great example of Key West architecture. Also, it has the 6-toed cats, which are really cool.  All of the 6-toed cats are descended from the original one given to Hemingway by a sea captain years ago as a gift.  Apparently it's a genetic mutation.

Hemingway House

Six-toed kitty cat at Hemingway House
3.  Mel Fisher Museum.  This was a really cool museum.  Mel Fisher searched for the shipwreck of a Spanish Galleon called The Atocha that sank in 1622 during a hurricane off the Florida Keys.  He searched for over 20 years and kept finding bits and pieces of things (a cannon here, a gold bar there) so he knew he was in the area but it took over 20 years to hit the mother lode.  He then endured a myriad of lawsuits from the U.S. government, the Spanish government and people claiming to be descendants of the Spanish sailors that died, all laying claim to the treasure which has been estimated to be b/w $3 billion and $7 billion (at the time he found it, the treasure was valued around $500 million).  He finally prevailed and he later used some of the proceeds to open this museum where you can see the treasure.  There are tons of gold bars, jewelry and artifacts.  It's a cool story, too.

Atocha Treasure at the Museum
4. Beaches.  I will say that you shouldn't go to Key West for the beaches.  The island itself is a coral atoll so it is very rocky and you won't find any good examples of white, sugary sand beaches unless said sand has been shipped in from the Bahamas and dumped to create a man-made beach.  There are some of those and they look pretty but the problem is when you walk into the water, that man made sand beach abruptly ends and it is rocky as hell.  You need water shoes to swim anywhere.  However, we found Smathers beach and Zachary Taylor beach to be the best for sitting, reading and people watching.

Zachary Taylor Beach

Smathers Beach
5.  Sunset at Mallory Square.  This was fun as well.  Everyone gathers at Mallory Square to watch the sunset.  There are street performers (including a guy that has trained house cats jumping through fire hoops) and all kinds of vendors selling trinkets and junk.  It's a great place to grab a rum runner and watch the spectacle.
Mallory Square
6.  Day trip to the Dry Tortugas.  About a 2.5 hour boat ride west of Key West are the Dry Tortuga islands.  This was a great day trip.  The main key has a huge fort on it (Fort Jefferson, I think) that was built during the Civil War.  It's now a National Park and you can tour the fort.  This key also has the really nice, Caribbean style beaches where you can swim w/o water shoes.  The water is beautiful out here - the best we saw.  The day trip is kind of pricey but we thought it was worth it and it's an all-day event that includes lunch.  We took the Yankee Freedom boat to visit, which was really fast and stable (I get seasick so that was a concern for me).
Fort Jefferson - Dry Tortugas National Park

I can't speak much to restaurants as we pretty much just ate at fish shacks and dive bars the whole time we were there.  I remember enjoying a few places including El Meson de Pepe for Cuban food, Turtle Kraals for casual seafood and The A&B Lobster House for a little more upscale seafood.  People rave about a place called My Blue Heaven for breakfast and brunch but there was a 2+ hour wait when we visited and we didn't have time to wait that long as we were driving back to Miami.

We really enjoyed our honeymoon in Key West.  We ended up going back for a second visit 3 years later, which was also a lot of fun.  The town does get really crowded during the day when cruise ships are in but they never stay the night (they have to leave before sunset so they can't block the sunset view from Mallory Square) so it's really pleasant at night.  Would love to go back again one day!

Helene in Between


Monday, April 29, 2013

Weekends. Why are they so short?

Had a fantastic weekend that was far too short.  My husband's birthday was on Sunday so I deemed it to be his birthday weekend.  Fortunately, the weather also cooperated with us and it was gorgeous Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

Friday night I prepared dinner of steamed mussels in white wine sauce, a field green salad with champagne vinaigrette and crusty garlic bread.  I also made an appetizer of a goat cheese gratin, which is the one of the easiest and tastiest apps ever (recipe below).  We had a bottle of rose and some white wine as well. I set up our table on our outdoor patio with a nice tablecloth, flowers and place settings and we dined al fresco.  It was a lovely evening and we stayed up late drinking wine and talking.
Mussel Dinner set-up

Goat cheese gratin appetizer and rose

Great French rose
The Legend of Beggar Vance showed up, aka, our dog, Fly

Saturday we slept in, had coffee and then I went off for a pedicure and some retail therapy at the mall.  I used my gift certificates that I received for my birthday and bought 2 new dresses, a blouse at Banana Republic and some makeup at Nordstrom.  I also bought Steve's birthday presents - some men's products from Kiehl's and a gift card to J.Crew.  I took him out to dinner to Salum, one of our favorite restaurants in Dallas where we had an excellent meal of steak, salad and we split a piece of chocolate tart, which was to die for - I love dark, bitter chocolate.

Pedicure

Remnants of chocolate tarte

Sunday was more sleeping in and I made us a light breakfast of egg white scramble with peppers and cheese.  We then ran up to the grocery store to get stuff for dinner.  We saw that they had live crawdads in so we got a pound of mud bugs to boil up for later.  It was kind of weird having them sitting in a bag in our sink all day - you could hear them moving every time we walked in the kitchen.
Live crawdads for later

We then did our neighborhood's home tour, which was nice.  I love getting decorating and remodeling ideas from other people's homes.  Our neighborhood in East Dallas is one of the older ones in the city.  It's called Hollywood Heights and most of the homes were built in the late 1920's and early 1930's.  The area has a really interesting history.  It was originally an old dairy farm and was bought by a developer after World War One who was from California (thus the name Hollywood which was his development company).  He was inspired by the architecture he saw in Europe so most of the homes are built in what is called a high tudor style.  Most of the homes look like little English cottages with high pitched roofs, gables and decorative details.  The entire area is also a protected conservation district.  Our home was built in the 1930's and it's still a work in progress.  We've done a lot of remodeling already but have plenty more to do which is why I love seeing what other people have done.  Living in an older home is challenging - apparently no one had more than 2 pairs of pants and 2 shirts back in the 1930's and closet and storage space is a big issue.  It's amazing what people can coax out of these homes though.  I got a ton of great ideas and have some new projects in mind.

Home tour brochure

Example of 1920's Tudor style home in our neighborhood
Loved this chevron tile design in one home's master bath
We saw this tacked to a telephone pole in our neighborhood
I guess someone has a sense of humor!

Following the home tour, we walked to our neighborhood park where they were having a small art fair and food trucks.  Had an amazing bahn mi sandwich.  The rest of the afternoon was laundry, margaritas on the patio and then a shrimp and crawfish boil, which was great.  I was so sad when the alarm went off this morning.
Art Fair and Food Trucks in our neighborhood park

Bahn Mi from Nammi Food Truck

Fly didn't want the weekend to end either

Goat Cheese Gratin Appetizer
Log of Plain Goat Cheese
Canned Plain Tomato Sauce
8 to10 Cured black olives (the wrinkly kind)
Thyme sprigs (5 or 6)
salt/pepper

Turn oven on to 400 degrees.  In a small gratin dish crumble the goat cheese and press it into the dish so that the bottom is completed covered.  Spoon tomato sauce over the goat cheese (usually 7 or 8 spoonfuls works for me) but leave a small border of exposed goat cheese around the edge.  Remove pits from olives and spread olive open so that it will lay flat - place olives randomly over the goat cheese and tomato sauce.  Remove thyme from sprigs and sprinkle all over the dish.  Sprinkle a little salt and pepper over the dish.  Cook in the oven for about 15-20 minutes until browned on the edges and bubbling.  Serve with crackers or crostini.  This goes really well with rose or white wine.

Friday, April 26, 2013

Weekend and Jury Duty

I am so looking forward to the weekend.  My husband's birthday is on Sunday (he is also turning 38 - we are old) so I have some special things planned.  Tonight I am cooking dinner and we are having an al fresco French bistro-style dinner on our patio.  I'll be doing steamed mussels in white wine sauce, a field green salad with a homemade champagne-mustard vinaigrette and garlic scrubbed toast with herbs.  Tomorrow I am getting a pedicure in the morning and then shopping for his birthday gift at the mall (he is impossible to shop for so I have to look around) and then we have a nice dinner out planned.  Sunday the weather is supposed to be amazing and our neighborhood is doing their annual home tour so I think we'll check that out and then will attend an Art in the Park event they are doing down the street followed by some grilled steaks.  Should be fun.

In things not so fun, I got notice that I have jury duty in another month.  Ugh.  I don't mind doing my civic duty but it's such a waste of time because I never get picked.  They never pick other attorneys to sit on a jury.  I think it's some kind of unspoken rule so I always end up sitting there for 4 or 5 hours before getting dismissed. Of course, I could do the below and maybe that would get me out earlier.



Let the weekend begin!

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Better Today

Things are going a better today.  I am feeling better and I actually made it to my 7:30 am meeting on time because there was no traffic, which is the miracle of all miracles in Dallas.  The hubby apologized about the wine bottle incident yesterday so I have let that one go as well.  One thing I will say about my husband is that he is a great apologizer.  He likes to keep the peace so even when we fight (and even if I am completely in the wrong) he still usually ends us apologizing to set things right again.  I'm lucky to have someone like that b/c some men cannot bring themselves to apologize for anything (I have some coworkers like that and they drive me bonkers).

Since I was ticked off yesterday, I did a little online shopping.  I bought these shoes from JCrew:

Everly mirror metallic pumps


This tote bag from Gilt:

Deux LuxeTote

and these earrings from Gilt:

Amrita Singh Earrings
I bought everything for my upcoming weekend trip to New Orleans.  The shoes and earrings are to go with this Ted Baker dress I bought on sale a few months ago and plan to wear on our anniversary dinner at Commander's Palace.

Ted Baker Dress

I rationalized the tote bag b/c I love the colors and it's made of a vinyl material so it's easily cleaned.  I have a cute striped canvas bag but I never want to set it on the ground (and definitely not in any New Orleans bars) b/c it gets so dirty so easily and then has to be washed and hung to air dry.

Now, if only the items will get here in time....


Wednesday, April 24, 2013

One of "Those" weeks

This morning was one of those mornings that make you want to crawl back in bed.  It doesn't help that I have been swamped at work lately, including 2 early morning meetings at 8:00 am or even EARLIER (which I hate b/c I am NOT a morning person) already this week, having to be on a work call until 8:30 pm last night and having to get too much stuff done in too short a time during the day.  So, I am already stressed and this stupid chest/sinus infection is making me irritable.

When I am like this, I expect sympathy and kindness from my husband.  I got neither this morning so I have proclaimed him to be Captain Asshole today.  I know I usually say nice things about him but today is not one of those days.  Long story short, I have been working a lot and sick.  Not a good combination.  I realized yesterday that today is Admin Professional's Day.  Have I purchased anything?  No.  Did I have time to buy anything yesterday?  No unless I tried to go shopping at 9 pm after my conference call.

My solution?  This morning, I grab a bottle of wine out of our wine cabinet and put it in a wine bag (I always have wine bags, gift bags and cards on the ready) as a gift.  Problem is that my husband gets up this morning and asks why I am taking this bottle of wine and I explained the situation.  He then proceeds to pitch a fit that the wine is too nice and he bought it and doesn't want to give it up.  For reference, this is a bottle from Sigel's he bought a week ago and is probably in the $45 range.  A nice bottle to be sure but it's not a 1975 Mouton Rothschild and has no special meaning or significance. I couldn't take anything else b/c we are out of "everyday" wine (thanks to him, I might add) and all the other bottles in our cabinet were gifts (special meaning) or are even more expensive.  I also reminded him that I have a work event tomorrow which happens to be a wine tasting and I promise to replace the bottle with one of equal or more value and he is having none of it.  He must have this bottle and it's his.  Argument ensues.  I leave said bottle with him, storm out with a few choice words and have no gift.  I now have to scramble on my lunch break to get something and I have a lot of work to do today (though I do have 5 minutes to spare to type of this rant).  I think he's being incredibly selfish.  He thinks I am being unreasonable and unfair.  I am quite certain that I am right.

Bottom line:  Sometimes men suck.

Oh, and to top it off, I spilled my breakfast on one of my favorite skirts this morning and the stain isn't coming out so I think it's ruined.  Love it.  I would solace myself with a drink or two this evening but I can't b/c I have to be at the office by 7:00 am tomorrow for yet another meeting.  Good times.